How to Avoid Them
Deadly Mistake # 1: They Think That Women Don’t Want Sex
Society has conditioned us with some very un-empowering and destructive beliefs regarding women. These beliefs can come from old-fashioned parenting, magazines, television and many other areas that dominate our everyday lives.
One of the worst beliefs that many men have, is that:
"Women don’t want sex"
Sadly, many men believe this to be true and it ruins their chances of being a good lover.
Don’t let yourself fall prey to this lousy belief. And don’t hold onto it if you
Currently believe it.
If you believe that women don’t want sex, it will impact every aspect of your interactions and relationships with women. You will probably end up viewing sex as a "men vs. women" scenario. To frame sex in this way is not a good thing and you will probably start seeing women as something you must "win- over" to get to their Vagina!
These thought patterns are not going to lead to great sex or long-lasting and loving relationships.
And make no mistake…
Women can read a man (and his beliefs) like a hawk. If you give off the vibe that you believe that "Women don’t want sex" and that you think that "men must win sex from women" then you will never, ever, attract a high class women. Much less keep one in your life.
By high class, I am referring to women who are intelligent, confident and have good self-esteem. And I am going to presume that this is the kind of woman you want in your life (or to keep in your life), otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this; right?
So, let me share with you a key idea that will help you to create some new beliefs about women. And with these new beliefs you will be able to attract and keep a great woman in your life.
Women Do Want Sex
In fact, women want sex even more than you do! There, I said it. And I know it goes against everything society has led us to believe… but it’s true. Want proof?
Here you go…
Ask yourself how many times in one night YOU can come? 2 or 3 times? Maybe
4 if you’re with a new woman who you are extremely into.
Now ask yourself how many times a highly sexual woman can come in one night? The answer is countless times. She can literally come dozens of times in a night (with the right man).
So, a woman’s capacity for sexual pleasure and her desire for it are way higher
Than a man’s.
Understanding this will allow you to break your old disempowering belief that
"Women don’t want sex".
Now, let me ask you how you would feel if you adopted a belief more like this: "Women are wildly sexual and want as much great sex as a good man can give
them"
How would you view women now? Much differently I’m sure. And with a belief
Like this you will separate yourself from 99% of other men who just don’t get it.
And women will respond differently to you, both outside of the bedroom and within it. You’ll become that magnetic guy that women just want. And they might not even be able to explain why. But sub-consciously they’ll know that you just "get it". As in, you understand, appreciate and adore women and their sexuality.
Deadly Mistake # 2: T hey Obsess Over The S ize Of Their "Package"
I’m going to share a very important sexual secret with you right now…
The size of your "Package" has very little to do with how good a lover you are
Now you may argue with that and say it can’t be true because you have heard women talking about how they like a big cock and you’ve seen magazines go on and on about "size".
However, here’s the realization that I made when I was figuring out all this
"How to be good in bed and with women stuff":
The typical woman is frustrated sexually. And this is not because she isn’t getting sex or can’t get sex, but it’s because she can’t get the kindof sex she really wants and craves.
70% of women have never had a Vaginal Orgasm. Let me ask you this: How much sex would you want if you never came during sex? I’d be willing to bet not much…
So here’s the situation… most women have never had mind-blowing multiple orgasms, squirting orgasms, ass orgasms or orgasms without any physical stimulation (YES, it’s possible)...
BUT, it is my belief that women subconsciously know that they are capable of experiencing these things… if only the right man would LEAD them through these experiences.
So, all these women that aren’t getting what they want in bed start to ask themselves why men are lousy in bed and come to the (false) conclusion that it is all down to size.
So they start to think that what they need is a guy who is "big" and this helps reinforce the beliefs and inadequacies many men have about their "size".
Now you have read all that, I’ll say it once again:
The size of your package has very little to do with how good a lover you are
There’s one physical aspect to a woman’s vagina that is of interest here and that is the fact that it’s the first 3 to 4 inches of her vagina that are the most
Sensitive. All but the smallest of men have that covered, so it should re-assure you.
Furthermore; the 3 most important reasons why you must stop worrying over your size are as follows:
- For women, sex is mostly mental. Once you understand this, you will stop focusing so much on the physical mechanics of sex and start to realize that if you want to have great sex with your woman… you must first Fuck her Mind and then Fuck her Pussy (this will separate you from
99% of the other loser guys out there)
- Women can only take so much size… I’m sure you have seen the typical porn scene where a very well-endowed man relentlessly pounds some poor girl over and over again. Well, she usually ends up looking like she’s in pain and there’s only one person who usually climaxes (him).
This takes the idea that size rules and blows it out of the window. I know from talking to dozens of highly sexual women (the kind who have had multiple orgasms and have been with men who "get it") that size is not really a factor in great sex. Other things (Beliefs, Confidence and The Ability to Lead) are much more important.
One final note on size.
You cannot control it. Obsessing over something that you cannot control is a recipe for disaster. So quit doing it… right now.
Be happy with what you have got and realize that you can be her greatest lover ever, regardless of your size (you just need to treat her right and give her earth shattering orgasms).
Also, realize that just because you are "big", it doesn’t mean you are
Automatically good. I have talked with many women who have been
Disappointed with a guy who had a "big tool", because he was a lazy lover and
Thought that all he needed was his size… How wrong those guys are.
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